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			<title><![CDATA[ Tuesday Night Meeting 10th November ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi all,
<br>
<br>
Just a reminder that the monthly meeting is this week at 52 Seagarth Lane, Shirley, Southampton, SO16 6RL from 7:30pm til 9:30pm. We&#39;ll be having tea and
coffee and chatting as usual.  Everyone is invited to share their feelings and the events surrounding the loss of their baby or how they&#39;ve been coping
since we last got together. It is a safe space to talk and / or just to be.
<br>
<br>
I&#39;ll be going, anyone else think they may be joining us?
<br>
<br>
Lots of... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:57:29 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ final goodbye ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I really need to just talk about tomorrow I hope nobody minds. tomorrow is when i said my final goodbye to Tobias as we held his funeral I&#39;d spent the past
11 or so days running around trying to get things just right if ever there was a time i&#39;d been grateful for savings it was now having never had to deal
with funerals before I was shocked at how expensive they were (some years later I&#39;ve learnt many funeral directors and cemertries, dr&#39;s etc wave their
fee&#39;s for a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:18:45 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Tuesday Night Chat 3rd November 2009 ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hello, I&#39;m here at last, anyone else around tonight?
<br>
<br>
Karen ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:06:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Southampton Sands AGM 2009 ]]></title>
			<link>http://southamptnsandsforum.yuku.com/topic/1862/t/Southampton-Sands-AGM-2009.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ This is to held at 52 Seagath Lane, Southampton (normal venue) from 10am until 12pm on Saturday 21st November 2009.
<br>
<br>
You will receive an agenda shortly either by email or post. 
<br>
<br>
If there are any changes to your email or home address then please email us at <a href="mailto:southampton.sands@ntlworld.com">southampton.sands@ntlworld.com</a> so that we can update your details.
<br>
<br>
After the meeting we are thinking of having lunch together, so please let us know if you are... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (Lisa Fricker)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 21:44:25 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Whispering pain ]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:59:43 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ if tears ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <img style="WIDTH: 350px; HEIGHT: 272px" src="http://iasos.com/audioclp/StairwayToHeaven-D-4d.jpg" width="645" height="485" alt="image">
<br>
<br>
<font color="#0099FF" size="4" face="sans-serif">If tears could build a stairway,
<br>
And memories were a lane,
<br>
We would walk right up to heaven
<br>
To bring you down again.
<br>
No farewell words were spoken,
<br>
No time to say good-bye.
<br>
You were gone before we knew it,
<br>
And only God knows why.
<br>
Our hearts still ache in... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:50:23 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ little snowdrop ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <img style="WIDTH: 412px; HEIGHT: 179px" src="http://exposedfilm.co.uk/images/north_yorkshire/large/more%20Snow%20Drops,%20Ripley%20Castle.jpg" width="693" height="485" alt="image">
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<font face="Tahoma"><font size="4"><font color="#006600"><strong><u><br>
Little Snowdrop
<br></u></strong>The world may never notice
<br>
If a Snowdrop doesn&#39;t bloom,
<br>
Or even pause to wonder
<br>
If the petals fall too soon.
<br>
But every life that ever forms,
<br>
Or ever comes to be,
<br>
Touches... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:40:27 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Ten tiny toes ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <font color="#008080"><strong><img style="WIDTH: 204px; HEIGHT: 178px" src="http://cdn.nextsmallthings.com/coolchaser.com/image-12557129.jpg" width="485" height="485" alt="image">
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<br>
<br>
<font color="#6666CC" size="4" face="Verdana">Ten Tiny Toes
<br>
<br></font></strong></font><font color="#6666CC"><font size="4" face="Verdana">We couldn&#39;t wait to hold you
<br>
And see your pretty face.
<br>
To count you little fingers,
<br>
And check your toes are in their place.
<br>
<br>
It... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:31:03 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ to the child in my heart ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <img src="http://www.melaniesemporium.com/my_little_angel_bear_200.jpg" alt="image">
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<font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffcc" color="#6633CC" face="Tahoma">TO THE CHILD IN MY HEART
<br>
<br>
O precious, tiny, sweet little one
<br>
You will always be to me
<br>
So perfect, pure and innocent
<br>
Just as you were meant to be
<br>
<br>
We dreamed of you and of your life
<br>
And all that it would be
<br>
We waited and longed for you to come
<br>
And join our family
<br>
<br>
We never had the... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:06:42 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ fingers & toes ]]></title>
			<link>http://southamptnsandsforum.yuku.com/topic/1856/t/fingers-amp-toes.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <img style="WIDTH: 278px; HEIGHT: 220px" alt="" src="http://photos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs107.snc3/15461_196453849026_567249026_4044883_3725992_s.jpg" width="183" height="151">  <font color="#0000FF" size="5">Ten perfect fingers, Ten tiny toes!
<br></font> 
<br>
<br>
<font color="#0000FF" size="4">These are my footprints
<br>
<br>
These are my footprints so perfect and so small. These tiny footprints never touched the ground at all.
<br>
<br>
Not one tiny footprint, for now I have... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 05:34:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ hi ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ hi all some advice would be great i have just found out I&#39;m 9 weeks pregnant i don&#39;t no how i feel one moement I&#39;m happy and the next i feel guilty
because mia only grew her wings 6 months ago and then I&#39;m really scared i don&#39;t no how i should feel is it to soon since Mia am i doing the wrong thing
  going on and having another baby so soon what will my friends and family think I&#39;m worried they are going to think I&#39;m trying to forget or replace
Mia which that will... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 14:04:49 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Portland Bill ]]></title>
			<link>http://southamptnsandsforum.yuku.com/topic/1853/t/Portland-Bill.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Recently I&#39;ve been spending time with Izzy&#39;s dad. We didn&#39;t talk from the time I went into labour until just seven weeks ago. Two and half years of
silence through all that pain and anguish. Not going into the why&#39;s and why nots, I just need to off load some other stuff. Obviously seeing him again and
talking and crying and talking together has brought up so much for both of us. I have felt so raw for about two months now and when we are together weird but
nice little Izzy... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 08:48:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Tuesday night chat 27th October 2009 ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi everyone, anyone else around, sorry I wasn&#39;t around last week, my internet is really flaky at the moment, and we had no connection.
<br>
<br>
How is anyone doing?
<br> ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (karenhenderson)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 20:06:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ mia my perfect ]]></title>
			<link>http://southamptnsandsforum.yuku.com/topic/1850/t/mia-my-perfect.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <table border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%" align="left">
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        <p><font color="#FF00FF" size="3" face="Georgia">Mia is my princess</font></p>

        <p><font color="#FF00FF" size="3" face="Georgia">my perfect little princess</font></p>

        <p><font color="#FF00FF" size="3" face="Georgia">her... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:20:50 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ this time 03 ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <font color="#0033CC" face="Comic Sans MS">I knew by now tobias wasnt going to be ok. I was asked if nature was to take its course or if his life support
should be withdrawn, something 6 years on i still question was it the right thing to do.
<br>
I look at the last pictures taken of tobias I remember how brave, beautiful my son is but when I arrived at gosh and saw my little man something about him was
different he didnt grip my hand or spy on me with one eye as he used too, maybe that was... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 16:52:57 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ there was hope! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <div class="post">
  As i paced up and down the parents room with my mum and brother with me trying to make some sence of what was going on. I held my perfect baby boy hours
  before i&#39;d only gone for a sleep because i was so tired now im paceing having been told tobias is unwell and needs to be put on life support. theres talk
  of moving him to chelsea &amp; westminster nicu as its a surgical unit and there is a problem with his tummy. Soon the dr comes back and we are told tobias... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 22:14:12 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ *clocks* ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <a href="http://images.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://www.disneyclips.com/imagesnewb/imageslwrakr01/cliprabbitalice.gif&amp;imgrefurl=http://www.disneyclips.com/imagesnewb/alice4.html&amp;usg=__uMNKu6A1fXVJgc30D_SB8CAUZMY=&amp;h=400&amp;w=334&amp;sz=31&amp;hl=en&amp;start=2&amp;um=1&amp;tbnid=uW_Ve0mSCRAtlM:&amp;tbnh=124&amp;tbnw=104&amp;prev=/images%3Fq%3Dalice%2Bin%2Bwonderland%2Brabbit%2Bdisney%26ndsp%3D18%26hl%3Den%26rlz%3D1T4ADBF_en-GBGB311GB311%26sa%3DX%26um%3D1">
<img... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 15:29:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ For Becki, mummy to Mia Rose ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I just want to post to you this morning, Becki, to let you know that there is a total stranger &quot;out here&quot; thinking of you/holding you today ~ ~ ~
supporting you to get through another day ~ ~ ~
<br>
<br>
If you search this forum for the word &quot;six&quot;, you will find a lot written about the six-month marker........I was just reading this for example: 
<br>
<br>

<blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">Berni wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  The six-month marker can be sooo hard for... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 07:10:43 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ strange week ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;ve been at the general hosp most of this week and on Tuesday there was a cats ambulance outside the hospital omg i went cold through and through but at
the same time i felt so drawn to it, wondering was that the same ambulance that took tobias to great ormond street? (cats only take babies/children to guys or
gosh in london, strange to see in soton) i couldnt stop looking at it! evently they brought out a travel incubator the baby wrapped in pink (sad to see but i
couldnt help myself... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:02:09 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ on his travels ]]></title>
			<link>http://southamptnsandsforum.yuku.com/topic/1843/t/on-his-travels.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <p>My Baby boy is in Jamaica!!! <img src="http://static.yuku.com//domainskins/bypass/img/smileys/roll.gif" alt="image"> <a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:20:51 GMT</pubDate>
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